The foster care system is full of đ€đ©đȘđđ„ren waiting to find a home where they feel safe and free to be themselves â but finding that home is often difficult. Children can end up temporarily staying with multiple families before they find the right one. The more siblings there are, the more these struggles increase. This is something six Tampa Bay đ€đ©đȘđđ„ren understand all too well.
For years, these 3 to 11-year-olds were bounced around from home to home. Worst of all, they ended up being separated, only adding to the anxiety and stress from their unstable living conditions. Not only did these đ€đ©đȘđđ„ren need to find their forever home, they so desperately wanted to be in the same one together. Thankfully, Dustin and Daniel stepped in just in time.
This Tampa couple, who have been married since 2020, discussed the topic of đ€đ©đȘđđ„ren just 30 minutes into their first date. Not only did they both want kids, they were willing and ready to put in the work needed to handle the challenges that come along with adoption â this included going to pre-adoption classes.
From the start, they made it clear to the adoption agency that they were open to taking in kids that have a tough time finding homes, including sibling groups.
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âDaniel and I are both close with our siblings and we knew how much it would hurt to be separated from them when we were growing up,â Dustin said.
Thatâs why this loving couple was honored to finally give all six siblings the home they deserve: Reid, 11, Amiyah, 10, Izayah, 9, Kaelix, 7, Cade, 6, and Roslin, 3.
By the time Dustin and Daniel came into their lives, they were staying in five different foster homes, had been in the system for more than three years, and one of them had experienced over 25 different placements.
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âWe were going to get adopted by this one family but they were too abusive,â Amiyah said.
Although there was some pushback on keeping the đ€đ©đȘđđ„ren together, the Bay Area Legal Services did whatever it took to ensure they got the reunion they deserved.
âThere was a lot of, âWhat if it doesnât work?’â Jennifer Robinson, an attorney with Bay Area Legal Services said. ââWeâre taking a đ€đ©đȘđđ„ away from whatâs stable to put him with his siblings, but then what if it falls apart? Weâve caused more trauma.’â
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Once they were living with Dustin and Daniel, there was a new hurdle to overcome: Helping the kids adjust to their new lives. At first, many of them experienced night terrors, a symptom of the post-traumatic stress disorder they got from witnessing domestic violence and drug abuse.
Plus, their eating habits werenât healthy. Because they were used to not having enough food, when they did eat, they would often gorge themselves.
âWhen they first moved in, they were completely withdrawn and had major trust issues,â Dustin recalls. âIt took months and months to build up that trust. Then the light started coming in.â
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That light continues to grow brighter each day. As a family, they see a therapist once a week. Plus, four of the kids see their own therapists as well. Improvements in their mental health can be seen in the way they interact with one another and succeed in school. One kid went from failing to making all Aâs and Bâs!
Best of all, these sweet siblings finally get to be with each other.
âTheyâre almost co-dependent,â Dustin says. âWe had the boys split up in two different rooms, and they came to us and asked if they could all be together.â
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Now that summer is in full swing, the Johnson family is having a blast getting to know each other better through bike rides, fishing, and playing outside with sidewalk chalk. Plus, the kids get to experience a new favorite activity of theirs: going on vacations!
âThe new thing theyâre excited about is taking vacations,â Dustin said. âThey love vacations now, but hotels used to be a trigger because theyâve lived in hotels.â
It wasnât easy for the Johnsons to get to where they are today, but the struggles they faced to get these six kids in their home was more than worth it. Theyâre happy and safe now, something that will continue to make a positive difference in each of their lives.
âWe all just had been waiting for somebody to give us a home, so we could be together,â Amiyah said. âWe all feel really happy to be with each other since itâs been a long time.â